Lose Your List for 2018- Choose your WORD!

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If you’re like me, every January gets me thinking about things I can change for the new year.

Bad habits I want to break, things I want to improve on, goals I want to set. All my imperfections begin to stare me in the face and immediately I have a list of my “New Year’s Resolutions.” These resolutions start off amazing. On January first my house is spotless, I am eating clean (it’s only been a day but I’m feeling GREAT!) and I’ve done my daily workout. 

By February first, not only are these resolutions completely off my radar, (Ok, let’s be honest… January 15th!) but now I feel like I have FAILED miserably; the vicious cycle of all my faults and failures as a mom, friend, homemaker, wife, etc. have all come full circle. 

So, this year I decided to do something different. Instead of making a list of all of my life changes, hopes and dreams, I decided to pick ONE WORD. This one word will be my entire focus for the entire year. With each new challenge, goal, and vision, I will focus on my WORD: How does this word help me achieve my goal? How does my word help me through this challenge? How can I utilize my word to make me a better mom, wife and friend? 

The process of choosing a word over writing a list of resolutions bestows clarity by taking all of your aspirations and dreams for your “perfect life”, and narrows them down into a single focus. A word that will help you reflect on your character and creates a vision for your future and for your family.  

My one word for 2018 is SIMPLIFY

So many things in my life right now require my attention and I feel like for me to be my best self, everything goes back to me simplifying. Whether it be simplifying my home, my time, or just saying NO to things to simplify my busy schedule. For me, in 2018 I will look to my word “simplify” to help me focus on my small daily goals and my character. 

Will you lose your list this year and join me by choosing your one word? What word will you choose for 2018? Let us know in the comments below!

And HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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Ali Holt
Ali lives in the Carmel Mountain area of San Deigo, with her husband Josh, and three little boys Boston (7), Nixon (4) and Ryker, (2). She is currently a stay at home mama but graduated with a degree in Dental Hygiene. She was raised in Salt Lake City, Utah, and is one of four girls. She met her husband in college and they have been happily married for almost 10 years. Together they moved to North Carolina for his medical school training and fell in love with the East Coast. Their medical journey then relocated them to North Liberty, Iowa where they loved and enjoyed the beautiful Midwest for five years. One last year of training has now brought them to sunny San Diego! They have enjoyed their coast to coast adventure that has brought so many friends and memories into their lives. Ali devotes the majority of her time to her kids but has been known to escape the crazy for a day of retail therapy. She loves being a boy mom, they are her greatest achievement in life! She loves photography, traveling, and a good fountain Diet Coke. Her favorite thing is spending time with family, whether it's at the beach, or at the Costco food court. She is excited about her new adventures with the San Diego Mom's Blog!

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  1. I love it!!!!!

    De-clutter is my word for 2018.

    De-clutter my house of stuff I don’t need or want anymore.

    De-clutter my mind of thoughts that are not productive.

    De-clutter my calendar with stuff I don’t want to do or I am not passionate about.

    De-clutter my life of people who cause me more negative than positive feelings.

    Wow! That felt good to get it out. Now, to make it happen!!!

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