Christian Mama Perspective: Is Halloween “Bad”?

By
marysusy
-
4

The dark creepy decor of Halloween has sprung!

Smiling skeletons with spiders and pumpkins abound. The scary characters of horror movies stand precariously on neatly trimmed front lawns. There has also been a growing trend towards Dia de los Muertos decor. Colorful skulls and flowers that celebrate death and those who have died color people’s homes.

And although I am not a fan of the gore, in our household, we do celebrate Halloween.

Some Christians argue that Halloween is counter to our faith. And so I often remind them that the word Halloween means “All Hallows Eve” – Hallow meaning Holy – making Halloween, the Eve (night before) All Saints day.

All Saints Day is a time to remember those before us who lived lives of spiritual excellence. Who put others first. Who loved deeply both through their words and actions.

And the costumes? Traditionally, it was meant to “scare” evil spirits. Then, as is often the case, this tradition changed. And we simply kept the goulish tradition of dressing up.

I like to use Halloween as a kids’ holiday to get treats. But I also see it as an opportunity to talk about how we as humans, celebrate both life and death. As sad as death is, it is a vital part of life.

And that’s where Dia de los Muertos comes in. When you believe in life after death, death is amazing and mysterious. When you believe that those who came before you, may still pray for you, death is a cause to celebrate.

SO, does this Christian mama think Halloween is bad?

It depends. I don’t understand the fascination with murderers, horror movies, gore and blood with yellow police tape surrounding your house. It’s an eerie thing for me to see…

However, I still think Halloween is ok to celebrate in our society, even if its spiritual aspect has been eliminated. I understand those who disagree. And I respect that opinion.

I just don’t think it’s that black and white. I think you can be a very Christian mama, raise Christian children, and still get them dressed up to get candy. 

christian mama asks: is Halloween bad?

What are your thoughts? Do you find this holiday a challenge when it comes to decor or costumes, not celebrate it at all, or just roll with it as completely harmless? I’d love to know!

RELATED ARTICLESMORE FROM AUTHOR

4 COMMENTS

  1. Thanks for sharing! My sister has never been a fan of halloween and my arguement has always been- this is the only time of year that starngers open their doors to offer a small token of kindness to children. We should foster creative and kindess wherever we can! ??

  2. I love this article! We are a traditional Christian family and I was raised a believer my entire life with strict parents who did not ever allow us to celebrate or participate in Halloween in any way, shape or form. When I became a mom I set the same rule for my kids but as my kids got older they began to wonder and question why they couldn’t wear a costume so I began to pray and do extensive research on Halloween last year. You are correct in stating what the original holiday was about and how it has evolved into something which is now scary and far from the original meaning behind the original celebration. Laat year after days of prayer, research and discussion, my husband and I agreed to allow our kids and myself to participate in Halloween with the understanding that because we are Christian we will not ever represent or promote any costumes, decor, movies or music that are scary and/or spark fear because we do love and serve God and God is not a God of fear. So for the first time ever(even me at 36 years old)we got costumes and had our first trick or treating experience which the kids enjoyed. Our decision shocked our families but they treated us with grace, understanding and respect and didn’t make us feel like less of a Christian in deciding to take a different approach as parents and believers.

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinion in this article!

Comments are closed.